How to Deal With Stress, Pressure & Anxiety While Studying Abroad?
Understanding the cause and how to deal with stress when in a new country
It can be challenging to adjust to a new life abroad while dealing with academic and peer pressure, financial needs, study commitments, work responsibilities and more. Since your life in your new country is going to be remarkably different from your home country, you may sometime feel too burdened, stressed and homesick. Know that it’s okay to feel low – it happens with everyone. Here are some tips that will help you deal with stress effectively.
|1||Cultural shock||Most International students face ‘culture shock’ when they go abroad since there is a vast difference between the culture and the way things happen within and outside their home country. Given they are mentally groomed in a certain manner; it can become a little stressful to cope on their own.|
|2||Homesickness||Moving away from your family and friends to a completely unfamiliar environment can make you homesick. This is quite normal; a lot of students go through this phase and often feel lonely, sad, anxious or even demotivated. You may also feel the urge to go back home or even insecure that you don't belong there.|
|3||Lack of confidence||Being in a new country also brings in hesitation to interact with people, make friends, voice opinion and more|
|4||Academic commitments and work responsibilities||Unfamiliar academic environments, curriculum, and study styles can be challenging for international students. Add to it, part-time work responsibilities to be able to meet financial needs can put students through a lot of stress|
|5||Burden of fresh independence||The burden of managing a string of new responsibilities such as combating language barriers, find the right accommodation and housemates, paying rent, managing household chores whilst balancing studies also weighs down a lot of students.|
Here’s how you can deal with these stressors:
1.Stay socially connected in your host country
Build your local support network or swap stories with other international students sharing similar experiences .Use social networking sites/apps to find international student groups, or people in your city who share similar hobbies.
2.Reach out to friends, family and/or personal support networks
Talk to someone close and trusted. Try:
- Scheduling weekly/monthly Skype sessions with family or friends
- Traveling and sending postcards back home
- Writing emails or letters
- Switching off social media for a while
- Joining student communities
- Keeping a busy schedule
- Meeting new people
- Be open to new experiences
- Travel and explore with new friends
3.Exercise regularly, eat healthy and look after yourself
Poor eating habits and sleep deprivation is also known to trigger stress. So, eat nutritious meals and rest well. Try cooking your meals at home instead of eating out often or binging on takeaway food. Exercise improves both physical and mental health. Ensure that you stay active by going for a walk/run, swim or working out in the gym. Meditation, yoga and deep breathing exercises can also help you stay calm and composed.
4.Get to know your new city
Make an effort to get to know your new surroundings and what’s happening in your host city. Familiarising yourself will help you feel more connected and less like an outsider. If you were involved in a club/church/group back home, then find out what your new neighbourhood has to offer.Research a little about where you’re living and find a few places you should explore –- the best coffee shops in the city, favourite locations for local street artists or all the different places you can go hiking. Make a list of these places or activities and challenge yourself to do/see all of them before you leave.
5.Get a pet
Studies have shown how spending time with a pet can significantly uplift your mood and lower your stress levels. Having a pet around makes your body release happy hormones and keeps you positive. If your university or landlord doesn’t allow you to keep one, you can go and spend time with domestic students who have one.
6.Talk to others about how you’re feeling
There’s no shame in being homesick. It happens to almost everyone. Seek help from a professional if you feel the need for additional support to work through your stress. A range of individuals and organisations provide support for people experiencing mental health concerns. You could also reach out to your university’s student support centre that often has specialists like counsellors and advisers who can help you manage stress.
7.Vent and express your feelings
If you are too shy to express your feeling with anyone, start keeping a journal and vent it all out. You may write poems, stories or even indulge in creative art forms like painting to express yourself.
HELPLINES AND COUNSELLING
- Lifeline –13 11 14
- Suicide Call Back Service –1300 659 467
- Beyond Blue –1300 22 46 36
- Headspace –1800 650 890
- Good to Talk student helpline – 1-866-925-5454
- Mental Health Helpline – 1-866-531-2600
- Spectra Helpline – Multilingal service covering Ontario only – https://www.spectrahelpline.org/index.php/our-services/multilingual-helplines
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 or (09) 5222 999 within Auckland
- Suicide Crisis Helpline – 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO)
- Healthline – 0800 611 116
- Youthline – 0800 376 633, free text 234 or email firstname.lastname@example.org or online chat
- thelowdown.co.nz – or email email@example.com or free text 5626
- Nightline – Look at Nightline website to see if your university or college offers a night-time listening service. Nightline phone operators are all students too.
- If you are studying in Wales, you can contact the Community Advice and Listening Line (C.A.L.L) on is 0800 123 737 or you can text 'help' to 81066. This services is available 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.
- Samaritans – freephone number is 116 123, or you can email firstname.lastname@example.org.
- National Suicide Prevention Lifeline toll-free on 800-273-8255.
Online chat services
- Lifeline Crisis Chat
- Crisis Text Line (on your smartphone)
- National Suicide Prevention Lifeline